Saturday, June 3, 2006

A Toast to a Sister, 2006

Affection is defined as "a tender feeling toward another." We are all here today to celebrate the affection that Jina and Eddie have for each other. But all of us in the room have a certain degree of affection for Jina and Eddie also.
I first learned to have affection toward Jina when she became my sister in-law 6 years ago. I already had 2 younger sisters, and Jina was a nice addition. A year after our wedding Jina came to live with her brother and myself, during her summer break from Nursing school. It was during this time that my affection for her started to grow. She became the greatest friend! I discovered that we had a lot in common, and that summer was spent talking, drinking coffee, and scrapbooking. Of course she and I are also part of the same profession, and a part of the same great family. The summer that Jina lived with us, she and I became more than sisters by law, we became sisters by heart.
As her sister, I was sad and happy for her to move to CA. Happy for the adventure, opportunity and change; and sad that my sister and confidant had to leave. My sadness lessened when I met Edward. Jina didn’t know it at the time, but no boyfriend of her’s had ever met her older brother’s expectations, that is until Eddie came to MN.
While here, Jina and Eddie and Jeff and I went to a Timberwolves/Lakers game. One thing I learned about Eddie is that he is a devoted Lakers fan. We still liked Eddie after he and Jina wore their Lakers jerseys and cheered loudly for the Lakers in Timberwolve territory. Jeff and I were so happy when we heard that the man who compliments Jina so well, would become a part of our family.
My hope is that Jina and Eddie, will grow in affection for each other and for each other’s families. I wish you many safe travels to MN, and many many years of companionship and marriage together!
So, please raise your glasses and help me wish my sister and her new husband many years of happiness in this world! Cheers!!!